What's a Mentor?
Definition: Mentor -- A Wise and Trusted
Throughout the ages, the term "mentor" has been used to
describe an older, more experienced person, a wise and trusted friend who takes the time
to form a relationship with a less experienced person. Good mentors are always
"other-focused," that is, mentors should always concern themselves with the
growth and the development of the mentee.
To Develop a "Relationship of Trust and
A group called Public/Private Ventures wanted to find out what
makes for a good mentor, so they conducted a study which canvassed mentoring programs, and
they came up with this simple statement. Now the anthem of the mentoring movement, it is:
"Successful mentors strive to develop a relationship of trust and respect."
This study also identified an individual called the "prescriptive mentor,"
someone who believes that he or she is the prescription or the pill for the young person.
Prescriptive mentors push too hard, too quickly, and do in doing so they turn their
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